How Long Do Spouses Stay Separated?

In Port St. Lucie and across Florida, many couples choose to separate before making any final decisions about their marriage. Some reconcile, others transition toward divorce, and there are even spouses who decide to simply remain separated indefinitely. During the separation, a party may pursue Court Ordered support, unconnected to divorce and child support.

While separation is an informal status legally, it is a common practice. If you have questions about your unique situation, talk to a Port St. Lucie family law attorney.

Why Separate and How Long Should It Last?

There is no set time limit for how long couples can stay separated. For some, separation is a brief period lasting only a few months, while for others, it may extend for years. The length of separation often depends on the individual circumstances of the couple, their reasons for separating, and whether they are working toward reconciliation or moving toward divorce.

Some common reasons to couples pursue a spousal separation:

• Time for reflection. Many couples choose to separate to take time to reflect on their relationship. A separation allows both partners the space to determine if they want to work on the marriage or if divorce is the better option.
• Practical reasons. Some spouses separate due to financial or logistical concerns. They may feel that staying married is financially beneficial, particularly if they share a mortgage, business, or health insurance plan.
• Children and parenting. Parents may decide to separate instead of divorcing in order to maintain stability for their children. A separation can offer a less disruptive solution for families, as parents may continue to co-parent while living apart.
• Cultural beliefs. Deciding to live apart could be due to religious or cultural reasons. In these cases, a long-term separation may be viewed as a more acceptable solution than ending the marriage.

Separation could be a way to work on a relationship, it can also be a step in preparing for a divorce. In Florida, couples are either married or divorced in the eyes of the law.

Can You Stay Separated Forever?

Technically, you can stay separated indefinitely as there are no legal restrictions in Florida that require a couple to divorce after a certain period of separation. Some choose to remain separated for long periods as they feel it suits their needs, especially if they do not wish to go through the legal and financial process of divorce.

Of course, remaining legally married can have implications for things like taxes, retirement benefits, and estate planning, so you need to weigh these factors carefully. A lawyer can explain how Florida law applies to your situation and guide you through decisions. Whether you’re considering a temporary separation or are confident you want to pursue a divorce, having an experienced Port St. Lucie family law attorney by your side can make the process smoother and less stressful.

Has the decision to separate led you to wonder about future options? In the Sunshine State, there is no time limit on how long spouses can stay separated, but to understand your options and protect your interests, consult with the lawyers at Baginski, Brandt & Brandt. To schedule a consultation, reach out.