Keeping a Married Name or Not

One of the many decisions you may be mulling over when separating or divorcing is whether to keep your married name or revert to a previous name. This choice is deeply personal, with a variety of practical, emotional, and legal factors to consider. A Port St. Lucie family law attorney can walk you through all of your options.

Working Through Your Decision

Some choose to retain their married name after a divorce. They may do this for one or more of the following reasons.

• Maintaining the same last name as your children can help preserve a sense of family unity and avoid confusion, especially for younger kids.
• Professional identity. If you’ve built a career under your married name, switching back to a previous name could disrupt professional connections or recognition.
• Changing your name requires updating documents, bank accounts, and other official records. For some, the hassle of these changes outweighs the benefits.
• Emotional ties. Even after a divorce, a married name can carry sentimental value or reflect a significant chapter in your life.

Others choose to revert to their maiden name or adopt a new name altogether after a divorce. They may do this to access a fresh start, as a name change can symbolize a new chapter and help a person reclaim their independence and identity.

Also, for some, a married name carries emotional weight. They will shed the reminder of the marriage they’re leaving behind. There are cultural preferences as well, returning to a maiden name or another family name may better reflect your heritage or personal identity.

In Florida, changing your name during or after a divorce is a straightforward process, but it does require proper legal steps. Requesting a name change in the divorce decree is one option. Simply ask for it during your divorce proceedings. Then, your divorce decree can include a court order authorizing the change, which simplifies the process.

Once the court approves your name change, you’ll need to update your Social Security card, driver’s license, passport, bank accounts, and other official documents. This requires providing a copy of the divorce decree and completing any necessary forms.

Should you decide to change your name after the divorce is finalized, you’ll need to file a petition for a name change with the court and submit to a background check. Again, a range of official documents will need to be updated.

Making the Choice That’s Right for You

Ultimately, the decision to keep or change your married name is completely up to you, it’s a personal choice that depends on your circumstances and priorities. Consulting with an experienced Port St. Lucie family law attorney can help you navigate the legal aspects of a divorce and ensure your rights are protected.

Could a name change be the new beginning you need when exiting a marriage? If you’re considering a name change as part of your separation or divorce, reach out to the legal team at Baginski, Brandt & Brandt for guidance and support. Contact us to schedule an appointment.